Planning for the memorial service in Virginia
March 23, 2005 7:02 PM
Anoopa's mom, Anita, would like to share some information in preparation for the April 2nd memorial service at Rajdhani Mandir, a Hindu temple, at 3pm. Everyone is welcome; it will be a special time to meet and support other loved ones of Anoopa and an opportunity to celebrate her life.
Please carpool to the temple. There is limited parking available.
The service will begin promptly at 3, so please plan to arrive early enough to park and make your way into the temple.
The Pooja is a ceremony to rest Anoopa's soul in peace. It will be mostly in Sanskrit and Hindi, but we will try to explain some of it in English so everyone understands the ceremony.
There is no particular restriction or requirement for the clothing worn at the temple other than you must remove your shoes before entering the Pooja hall. Wear something comfortable as we will be sitting on the floor for the service. It is not essential to cover your head and there is no color restriction for clothing. Just choose something respectful for a temple or church.
In addition to the ceremony, we plan to read some of Anoopa's writings and offer friends and family some time to share memories and thoughts about Anoopa. All are welcome to speak, pray, or sing, so please come prepared to share if you are interested.
The Sharmas are very thankful for the flowers sent to their home, but there is not space to accommodate more. They request that if you wish to send flowers, send them to the temple next week: Thursday, Friday or Saturday. We can use them for the memorial services on Saturday.
Although it is not necessary to bring food, many of you have asked for guidance. After the memorial services there will be a small reception with tea/coffee. It may be alright to bring finger foods, cheese, fruit and veggie platters for the reception. PLEASE NOTE THAT FOODS WITH ANY TYPE OF MEATS ARE NOT TO BE BROUGHT TO THE TEMPLE.
After the memorial services the guests are NOT expected to go to the Sharma house. Out-of-towners, close friends and family will return to the house later that evening.
For friends traveling from out of town, we suggest you search online for hotel options in Chantily, VA. This is a good location for a relatively economical hotel that's convienient to the airport and the temple, and is also close to restaurants and such. See below some options Anita researched:
Here is some information on hotels near Dulles airport that is about 8
miles from the temple.
The rates are for rooms with one Q or two Q beds.
Hampton Inn, 4050 Westfax Drive, Chantilly. Tel 703-818-8200
Wknd rate (Fri-Sat) $69/$79, Sunday $159
Fairfield Inn 3960 Corsair Ct, Chantilly. Tel 703-435-1111
Wknd rate (Fri-Sat) $69/$79, Sunday $139
Courtyard-Marriott 3935 Centerview Drive, Chantilly. Tel 703-709-7100
Wknd rate (Fri-Sat) $89/$99, Sunday $189
ExtendedStayHotels.com, 14420 Chantilly Crossing Ln, Chantilly. Tel
703-263-7173
Wknd rate (Fri-Sat) $80/$86, Sunday $111. Will provide a small discount
if 10-15 rooms are booked...tell them you are here for Anoopa Sharma
Memorial Service.
These are located within easy reach of the Dulles airport and the
temple.
They have other locations in Fairfax which may be fine except the
distance to the temple will be about 15-20 miles.
The area of Fair Lakes may also be suitable as you can easily get on to
the Fairfax county Parkway (North) and exit on Rt 50 west to get to the
temple.
The weather forecast is
Friday Temp 63/48 sunny, scattered showers poss
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Posted March 29, 2005 3:55 PM
For those who will be coming from out of town to attend the service, my parents and I are happy to offer a place to stay for the weekend. Please feel free to contact me if this would be helpful to anyone.
Posted March 29, 2005 5:34 PM
My daughter's Friend,
In my heart there I have images and memories of Anoopa, dear friend of Cecilia (my daughter) but I am unable to give them form of words. The following thoughts are taken from "Friendship" by Kahlil Gibran, as a way to express my blessing for the opportunity to have met Anoopa: ..."Your friend is your needs answered.She is your field which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving.And she is your board and your fireside.And when she is silent your heart ceases not to listen to her heart;For without words, in friendship, all thoughts, all desires, all expectations are born and shared, with joy that is unacclaimed.When you part from your friend, you grieve not;for that which you love most in her may be clearer in her absence, as the mountain to the climber is clearer from the plain.And let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the the spirit.And let your best be for your friend.
If she must know the ebb of your tide, let her know its flood also.
For what is your friend that you should seek her with hours to kill?Seek her always with hours to live....And let today embrace the past with remembrance ...
Anoopa's gentleness, will remain in my heart!!
Peace and Love to Anoopa, her Parents and Sister
From Rosita A. KlinePosted March 30, 2005 1:54 PM
I also have a spare room, here in Silver Spring, Md for anyone who may need it this weekend. I'm on the metro red line, so Reagan and BWI are both easy to get to. I can drive to Dulles too.
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Posted April 21, 2008 6:09 PM
Sorry to hear about your loss...hope you have grown spiritually since this time.